Monday, August 29, 2011

noticing each other.


I recently read this article by Clayton Christensen, "The Burden of Our Beliefs." It is a blog post in the Washington Post, specifically focusing on "faith." I was really impressed by what he had to say and thought I would share it.

His point is all of us being human have things that would make us feel like a minority or that we don't fit in or for some reason don't belong. But in seeking to fit in and find peace and justification in our differences we should be careful and notice what our actions do to others who might also feel left out and alone.

He talks about this painting by Normal Rockwell and comments, "embedded within the faces and clothing of those in the collage is the message to look beyond ourselves--our rights, our hurts, our pain--[and let us remember to] 'do unto others as you would have them do unto you.'"

In this article he is specifically addressing the role of religion in relating to same-sex attraction. He explains, "often in the pain and desire to have what everyone else has, and be treated like everyone else is treated, we do exactly the opposite of the Golden Rule. Because we so desperately want to be 'normal' and feel the right to be treated 'normal,' we aggressively lobby for laws that specifically guarantee what we want for ourselves but ignore, in our selfishness, that many other minorities around us have the same desires, needs, and pains--simply manifested in different ways."

"Because we are truly all in this together, we all must succeed together. If there is a win for one minority we must not allow the natural course dictate that another will lose. When one loses, society loses."

"We are facing some difficult questions and decisions in our world and society. I simply hope that each of us will look to our left and right and see more of what others are carrying."

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